Mastering the Art of Coaching Presence: Self-Assessment Toolkit

What Separates Good Coaches from Great Ones?

It’s not the techniques. It’s not the frameworks. It’s presence.

Imagine this: You’re in a coaching session. Your client is navigating a tough decision. You’re fully present—attuned to their words, emotions, and even the silence between them. You’re not rushing to fix or solve. Instead, you create space where insights unfold naturally, and your client feels deeply seen, heard, and empowered.

That’s the power of coaching presence.

It’s the art of being fully engaged, adaptive, and attuned to your client in the moment. It’s also the skill most coaches struggle to master consistently.

The “Mastering the Art of Coaching Presence: Self-Assessment Toolkit” is here to change that.

Coaching Presence: Simple in Theory, Transformational in Practice

We all know what it’s like when presence clicks—those magical sessions where everything flows. But let’s be honest: staying present isn’t always easy.

There are days when:

  • Your mind races ahead to the “perfect” next question.
  • You replay yesterday’s meeting while your client shares something vulnerable.
  • You second-guess yourself, losing the flow of the session.

Here’s the thing: Presence isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being aware. That’s why I created this toolkit—to help you assess where you are, discover what’s holding you back, and grow into the coach your clients truly need.

What Makes This Toolkit Different?

This isn’t just a checklist. It’s a reflection tool. A growth companion. A practical resource designed to meet you wherever you are in your coaching journey.

Here’s what you’ll get:

  • The Self-Assessment Framework
    20 reflective statements that go beyond surface-level skills, challenging you to examine the moments where your coaching truly shines—and where it falters.

  • Development Suggestions
    Practical, real-world strategies tailored to your current level—whether you’re just starting out or on the path to mastery.

  • A Progress Tracker
    Keep tabs on your growth, celebrate your wins, and adjust your strategies over time.

  • The Reflection Guide
    Thought-provoking questions that reveal what’s really driving your coaching presence—and what’s standing in the way.

This toolkit doesn’t just align with the ICF Core Competencies—it’s built on real coaching experiences, blending insights from 23 years of working with coaches and leaders across the globe.

Why Coaching Presence Changes Everything

Presence is the secret ingredient that makes coaching transformational. Without it, even the best tools and techniques fall flat. With it, you can:

  • Build trust so profound your clients feel safe exploring their deepest challenges.
  • Hold space for breakthroughs that leave clients saying, “I’ve never felt this clear.”
  • Navigate intense emotions or silence without losing your footing.

Who Is This Toolkit For?

This is for coaches who are ready to move beyond “good enough.” Whether you’re just starting to explore coaching presence or refining your mastery, this toolkit will help you:

  • Identify your unique strengths.
  • Overcome the distractions that pull you away from the moment.
  • Show up more authentically and powerfully for your clients.

Are You Ready to Master the Art of Coaching Presence?

Picture this: Your next session starts, and instead of feeling rushed or unsure, you’re fully present, grounded, and confident. You notice the unspoken shifts in your client’s energy. You hold space for them to uncover insights they didn’t even know they had.

This isn’t a fantasy—it’s what’s possible when you commit to mastering your coaching presence.

Click below to download the toolkit and take the first step toward transformational coaching.

About Cath Daley

Hi, I’m Cath Daley.

As an ICF Master Certified Coach with 23 years of experience, I’ve had my share of “aha” moments—and plenty of lessons learned the hard way. I created this toolkit because I know firsthand how vital presence is, and I want to help you discover what’s possible when you master it.

Let’s grow together.